• Published Nov. 22, 2023   

• By Tech. Sgt. Marianique Santos

• 62nd Airlift Wing Public Affairs

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Inspired by her own experience, she, along with a friend whose son was killed in action, helped found a new group in January of 2023: the Gold Star Families of Washington.

“We serve all family members and all types of deaths to be more inclusive,” she said. “We welcome family members like me or those whose children or spouses had an accident or an illness. No matter which family member it is or how we lost them, we all lost somebody.”

Today, Hughes continues to volunteer with the USO at the Seattle-Tacoma International Airport and the local Veterans of Foreign Wards chapter. She carries Danielle’s banner during the veteran-related Auburn, Washington, parades. She also continues to serve other Gold Star family members through her organization, providing a network, emotional support and information to those who lost loved ones who served.

“Don't just sit at home,” Hughes said. “Your loved one wouldn’t want you to close yourself off from life just because they're no longer here. One of the best ways you can remember your family member is by living a life of service for them.”

Even though gold star families have experienced a great loss, their ties to the military community remain strong. To learn more about the Gold Star and other survivor benefits at Joint Base Lewis-McChord, visit https://jblm.armymwr.com/programs/sos.